Exactly why is it that whenever i will be being fully bitch, aka ignoring males that We have no curiosity about venturing out with once again, males won’t leave me personally alone? Personally I think like its bad karmic energy but I additionally feel just like there is nothing owed to anybody after 1 date, i ought ton’t need certainly to split up with some guy that I’m not dating.
Evan is i’m all over this!
It is because they’re perhaps not great dudes. Ergo you didn’t provide them with a second date.
Julia—I’m simply guessing right right here, but I figured I would respond lol since I have the same problem.
We that that the only thing that is going on the following is by using males you’re NOT enthusiastic about, you may be exuding a unique types of energy…. Maybe one that’s care-free, able to be your self, maybe maybe not needy, maybe perhaps not clingy, easy-going, etc, because you’re NOT enthusiastic about these dudes.
Because of the dudes you are looking at, perhaps you’re behaving only a little differently. Also subtly? Possibly possibly you’re more stressed whether they will call you back for a 2nd date, and maybe that vibe is seeping through your pores and they are sensing it…even if only subconsciously around them, trying hard to impress them, don’t want to offend, hiding your TRUE self instead of just letting your natural radiance shine, you are actually worried/invested in.
Idk…this is simply my GUESS. We struggle with this too because it will feel just like some one is playing a joke lol that is cruel!