I understand many individuals believe internet porn is safe ”fun”, and that guys don’t reveal which they enjoy it since they’re embarassed. Clearly this might be often the situation, but i understand that my hubby had no idea the way the mix of my post-partum body/hormones, along side my insecurities about my own body and my identification as being a mom of 3 kiddies would set the phase when it comes to ”perfect storm” of totally destroying my self-esteem once I discovered their porn habit. He had been utilizing it as a socket for their very own insecurites about having less intercourse, wondering if their spouse would ever be their ”girlfriend” once more (and not only mom of their children), also to make a move he thought harmless yet slutty.
